I sort of told t that I had gotten really attached to her when she was talking about my bad relationships with my parents and she was like "yep I thought you did but I wasn't positive." She also had dropped hints to get me to talk abiut it before. And she reassured me that it is TOTALLY normal and that that way I can learn from our relationship. We haven't talked about it in more depth yet though, but anyway, she did know before I said it.