Some symptoms are similar to mine (also if neither I have been diagnosed), for example the need of perfectionism. Now I'm more able to control it, but if you feel that you can't control it and this causes you a lot of anxiety the best thing that you can do is talking with a therapist, he'll give you advices. I have to say that also the fact to be in this group helps me a lot...I hope that it will be the same for you.