Thanks {{{{{{{{{{everyone}}}}}}}}}}

We are still thinking over the 40 years with Tony, it is probably going to take longer than this.

At least half the time, when we wake up we still expect him to be there

we are going to light candles & 12 fibre optic lamps & other stuff at the anniversary of his death.

he died about 11.30pm on March 5th Australian Eastern Daylight Saving Time.

it is our older (schizophrenic) son's birthday on 7th March

please think of us, our sons too, at that time (if you can work out the time conversion, we never can )

Maybe we will be on line then, but probably not, unless we are alone. We think the guy who was caring for Tony, & who tried to resucitate him (we forgot that Tony had asked us not to try, but it didn't work any way) will be here, but maybe not.

We've run out of words