Well obviously our parents have severe mental problems themselves.

They made the mistake of having children. THAT's why they are to blame, according to me.
You can't blame them for being bad parents, because they have probably been abused themselves and can't help what they have become.
But then, the rational thing to do is to get professional help or don't have children at all.

I know for sure that I will never have children, because I don't want to hurt them the way my parents did me. I know I'm not stable enough to handle children.
And I am angry that they did not see they weren't either before they had me.

I actually discovered yesterday, that my mother left me at my grandmother's for 5 months because she couldn't handle me. I was a 1 year old..