Thank you, Demi! I am glad for everyone involved in your niece's situation that your Grandmother's strategy worked... It makes sense ... I don't know if I am strong enough to use that technique, but I will certainly give it lots of thought. I haven't heard from my daughter in almost a week and she always checks in daily... I'm concerned about her but for now think I need to give us both some space. Your kind and thoughtful response makes it a bit easier.

(((Hug)))