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Old Mar 02, 2014, 03:07 AM
Anonymous100115
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I think you're looking way too far ahead relationships with people are often slow growing and even if you do get married, divorce is most definitely not a terrible end-all sort of thing.

Also, I don't believe in forcing a connection or jumping on the bandwagon so to speak. Get into a relationship when you're ready and really care about the other person. Don't feel pressured into one because that won't make you happy. Take your time there are plenty of fish in the sea. Plus, I don't know where you're from, but it's most definitely common for the majority of my area to not have even experienced a single relationship until college. And even then me and plenty of my friends haven't either (I'm 20). Also word of the wise, usually the people who aren't looking for a relationship and are at peace with not being in one get picked up the fastest. It's weird...

Call me an old romantic but I'm not exactly worried about finding a relationship. I get to know everyone first and if I could really see myself with them then it'll happen if it's meant to happen. I guess I'm still more concerned with making lots of friends and connections. But there are definitely a lot of creepers as you go through life :/ so make sure not to end up with one of them lol. I never got hit on before college and now I'm actively turning away guys which is a really odd uncomfortable situation but really ego boosting.

What I'm trying to say that, even if you haven't met someone yet, there are plenty of people out there and some people spend their entire life single until they meet the "one." To be honest I'd prefer that over marrying the wrong person and then realizing 5 years too late that you want to divorce.

Stronger is right about self-worth though. You are more than enough