Thank you so much, Allison, for all the thoughtfulness, insight, care and affirming encouragement you put into replying.

Even though I have tried some of the things you suggest, you have given me much to think on and try. (I'm also wondering whether to show him ??)

Sorry I'm not up to a decent response right now, for a couple of reasons, but I do want you to know I greatly appreciate the time and caring input you've given.

PS We have just restarted couples therapy (we had initially started months ago but quit after three sessions cos the guy was worse than useless) with a really sensitive counsellor I used to see yrs ago. And the psychologist I see now and then thought it great when I floated the idea of 'sex therapy' ... aaarrrghhh !!

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