Hey mulan, just saw your post and while I don't feel clear enough right now to offer anything eloquent, I would like to say for whatever it may be worth that I believe there is a genuinely caring, understanding match for everyone and that you will, when it's right, find someone who gets you and is helped by your listening ear and other personal gifts. Like the other poster said, it may not be time yet but you certainly don't need to give up!

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