Thank you ((((( everyone )))))

She's angry at me today and is at her apartment.

Even sick, I won't be treated badly to the point of abuse. I can't and won't...even with sickness (of course, unless the person has no knowledge of their actions...then still have to protect to a degree).

She's been so demanding and filled with agitation and rage. Part is illness, part is hormonal, part is just Jess. I can't see the line clearly, but wherever the line is, it was crossed.

I didn't come back on her because that would have me living with too much guilt since she's been so sick. I did "clam up". I refused to say anything else that she might take and then attack. I ended up not speaking excepting to ask her what she wanted from the drive thru. Well, now, that ticked her off too! LOL.

She went to her apartment last night and hasn't come back. I told her daddy if she felt well enough to be that mean, she felt well enough to keep herself safe...bottom line for me.

Also, she has NO PROBLEM using that mouth of hers, so SHE can make her own phone calls, discuss her own concerns, begin to take her own responsibility in her life now that she has more of an understanding.

As she can, she needs to work on cutting her end of the "apron strings", because at this point she's sitting back and ordering everyone around her around so she can blame for anything gone wrong or have a place to focus that agitation and rage. She doesn't see this I'm sure.

Lines are so blurred everywhere. Boundaries can't apply as they should. It just tough.

Bottom line, I will be WHATEVER I CAN BE for her...except a whipping post.

KD