I'm so relieved you guys are being so supportive. I was afraid I was going to get some judgemental answers, especially since I was clearly upset when I typed this up! [Yahoo Answers is incredibly notorious for giving, well, insensitive answers. Man, you don't even wanna know what %#@&#! said in response to my distress from being sexually assaulted.]

My boyfriend and I have worked very hard on our relationship, and for being unhappy with where we are I think we do pretty well. We got together during the toughest times of our lives. He realised he hated what he was doing in graduate school [physical therapy] and I switched my major twice...And that doesn't even skim the surface of what we've toughed through. I don't want to throw that away, which is why I was so emotional and concerned.

I spoke to him after I posted this. When I mentioned it, he said he was getting concerned about the same things...So, it worked out well. We decided to cut off our behavior, and we came up with a few ideas to stop the events that lead up to it. He feels that it's not really necessary for me to move out, although he said he would never stop me. He felt that we just need to stop bugging eachother out of bordem and grow up. I agreed, and I suggested that we schedule an hour of chatting time each day. Of course, if this doesn't work, I'll have to rethink my place in our initial agreement.

I'm usually not this bad at voicing my concerns, it's just that sometimes he'll try to argue with me over details, instead of just trying to listen or even help me explain what behaviors of his bother me if I'm not doing a good job. He tends to not want to admit to any wrong doing [or try to help me remember exact occurences if I can't put an exact finger on it] unless he's specifically caught red handed with exact examples of recent behavior that he remembers [yup, all of that]....And with my ADD [no kidding, diagnosed] and both our stubborness, it gets rough. So, I've developed a bit of a callous for trying to tell him what bothers me since he can be difficult or disinterested when my memory doesn't serve me the way he wants it to serve him [or me!]. I mentioned this issue to him, too. I manged to find the specific & recent examples that he also remembers, so we had less bumps to go over. I'm not quite sure if it's totally resolved....But, at least with the issues I brought up, things should be better....And they were the worst of things. So hopefully our overall plan will make things easier, and we won't have to have many more of these discussions. I just hope that if we do have to have more, it'll get easier.............

Thanks a lot guys :