Darklady

I am a lesbian as previously stated, and am totally out of the closet to everyone but my parents. I feel all they did was break me as a child with their right wing crap and they never cared about knowing me before so y should I give them the time of day now to know me?

I never bothered to out myself to them since I do not even speak with them. Everyone else that does know me and knows don't care. It's not what defines me. I am engaged to my future wife awaiting legalizing of same sex marriage, my parents don't know. I told my sister she says she's ok with it but her action don't seem ok. That's her issue though that she can't accept my finding someone who is for me. My sis is a big princess in her mind and doesn't like it when any attention is diverted for her.

The pt is u can't allow ur families view of anything dictate ur life. U are u. U are not them and u have the right to live how u choose and not give them ur life to use as they see fit. They are not in ur bedroom so they shouldn't know. I tell the same thing to heterosexuals who raise issue if I walk hand in hand with my future wife. Am I in ur bedroom? No, stay out of mine.