The reason why men pay for sex isn't, for the most part to feel like a man. It's more often then not because they want sex and sometimes they may want to try something that they might be able to do otherwise. Line a-nal sex, or get a woman to dress up and do a roleplay fantasy. Sometimes men pay for sex with porn stars ( many porn stars are also escorts) just for the novelty of getting to have sex with a woman who they may have watched on porn, and dreamed about getting lucky with.

Many porn stars are like minor celebs. That in itself is the turn on not to mention, if the guy is an older guy and not that good looking, it's his way of getting with a stunningly attractive young woman who'd have no chance of getting into bed without paying for it.