Well the only way to see it is as a learning opportunity. Next time if you don't want someone to know you tell them that and then also now you know to keep your new doc secret. Hopefully they don't follow up and transfer the records and your new doc may not even read them my new pdoc wanted to form her own opinion, but you really have to decide if you are done with this T because she sounds well like a combination of concered and overbearing.