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Originally Posted by ak482
I would like the 1st date to be to get to know each other, have a nice time at dinner, maybe go to a movie or to the park. 2nd date, I don't know since I rarely get that far 
I don't want to go crazy spending since money is a bit tight. |
I like sophiesmom's suggestion for date #1. Your idea for date #2. And with a tight budget, cook at home, watch a movie.
I recognize about not wanting to plan, I feel, just don't plan to micromanage, your every moment. Of course, learning to just relax, is much easier said than done, considering the enormous pressure, you are bestowing upon yourself.
Don't be too intense, on any of these dates. Smile, coyly even, brush up on your listening skills, and conversation starters, to not sound too forced or nervous.
Do tell, if you don't mind, a little about this woman, and perhaps, some of us, can give some coaching/guidance
To me, I can see why this is such a big deal for you. Remember to breathe....
Do you have any sisters, or female colleagues that you interact with, to reduce the nervousness?