Oh my goodness I relate. I'm one of the lucky ones who's period lasted for a week with debilitating cramps. And heavy heavy flow. Then I had kids. It got so much worse. After my daughter I had them 3 weeks on 2 weeks off. It was horrible. Finally I strong armed my doctor into a hysterectomy. Since I was so young he wasn't a fan. But seriously it was the best thing ever. I've been period free since 2011. Best feeling ever. Not that it is necessarily the answer for you but yes I understand.


Oh and a doctor once said your own saliva should get the blood out. I was too grossed out to spit on my underwear but I used a combination of soaking. Then peroxide. Then toothpaste. Then soak with oxi clean then wash. That cleaned about 95% but the elastic and fabric around it always held the stain no matter what. I also used the Always plus size with wings overnighter pads. Really thick and bulky but reduced leaking

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