<font color="purple">your not alone , that is me too... I dont get too bothered by it when I am at home as far as feeling embarrassed but it happens to me a lot at work and that can get embarrassing.... but most peeple who kno wme are aware that I am easily startled and understand that its an automatic reaction that I have no control of.... I wish I had some advice on it, but I dont, just able to relate.... ((Hugs))))</font>