This, says it all. I am so sick of men that feel entitled to treating their spouses and girlfriends badly because they "provide". It's easy to "feed, house and care for someone financially" but to actually love and be a husband or SO is a whole other ball of wax. The fact that he cheated, and his attitude right in that statement speaks volumes. You seem to know the answer here. Although I agree with you, dont' look for validation in this, you don't need it. You know what he is and how he treated you. Be strong in yourself and your decision. But not becuase I or anyone else says so but because in your heart you know it's right.

~S4