I understand IAM. I am the same way. It is just not worth the effort. Seldom do
i have the need so bad that it is worth that kind of effort. I would change my meds. But my H and I don't get along and sex is not a real high priority at the moment. If for some reason down the road I work things out with my H for find a new love, I may change the meds. But right now, that is the only bothersome side affect, otherwise it works great.