To be blunt - believing that you and your first teenage boyfriend will be together forever is stupid. You sound like a really smart girl in the way you write, and that you hold on to such a naive belief creates a cognitive dissonance (meaning that one would expect a person who is showing your ability to reason to be more mature overall). As someone said above me, lots of boyfriends will come your way, but you only have one set of parents.

The bf sounds like a mean, controlling, condescending jerk, whose parents feed his ego. They said that because he is an A student, he cannot do anything wrong - rolled eyes and give me a break. Is he by any chance an only child of "overdoting" parents?

If he is at risk of cutting himself, you should direct him to mental health resources for teens, remembering that YOU ARE NOT A FREE MENTAL HEALTH RESOURCE FOR TEENS, ok?

And please re-read Romeo and Juliet. As my wise late mother used to say, there is nothing like parental feud to stoke the fire of young love.

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