I too have many nightmares about my abuser who was my grandfather from the age of 8 until 15. I sometimes see him in my room I wake up and of course he is not there but it always seems so real. I have found that through my group therapy sessions I am not alone and survivors all at some point have these nightmares. My therapist suggested I write my abuser a letter and then tear it up, my abuser is deceased so I was never able to confront him. And no one in my family believed me. If someone were to tell ypu they were abused, how would we react. I have been away for awhile and have not read anything since March, But I am back and I am glad to see alot of support.

Thank everyone for listening.