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Old Jul 24, 2004, 12:51 PM
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We're "out" about being multiple. But we have some co-consciousness (alot, actually) so that makes it easier for us. And the reason we're "out" about it is precisely what you're talking about, Sweet Crusader. All the myths and stereotypes and stigmas surrounding DID are only there for as long as we allow them to be, in my opinion. It's up to those of us with DID to educate others by sharing our stories (not abuse stories, just us, you know?) and ourselves with them. It's difficult though, because DID systems were designed to go undetected - the whole point is secrecy. So to be "out" about having DID is in direct opposition to the reason we're multiple in the first place. But what we've learned so far is that a) being multiple is nothing to be ashamed of b) we can survive we can survive we can survive and c) for us, hiding away and keeping our secret is no longer necessary to our survival but, in fact, hurts us - what was once a protection is now a trap.

So I guess what I'm saying, Sweet Crusader, is yeah I think it's a great idea.

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