@chromegirl- Tapatalk keeps crashing when I try to quote you and respond but I want you to know that your advice has been spot on. It is pretty freeing to think that I don't have to worry about controlling what he does. I'm not happy and I think the distance means I need to really rethink things as it's stalled my recovery - well that and my anxiety which it aggravates. He's been accountable and done work but I don't feel I'm getting better. I may not be cut out for moving on from something like this. Anyway, thank you for your very thoughtful advice.

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