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Originally Posted by sophiesmom
What do the heels look like?
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Don't forget that people look at us but rarely see us.
Do you remember what guy in front of you in the grocery store had on?
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Both very good points, and you're right, I can't remember what somebody else would've been wearing. In all honesty I very rarely notice other people's shoes unless it's a pair of boots that I think are nice and would be nice to wear.
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Originally Posted by keeprolling
Did you know high heels were originally made for rich men? It was a symbol of status way back when 
Especially if you're wearing them underneath your jeans most people don't notice shoes unless they're looking on the floor and even then they're hardly paying attention. I guess my advice is to do a short trip in them. Like a grocery store visit. And then ease yourself into being comfortable wearing them for longer and longer times in public. I'm glad you're giving it a shot though It's frustrating when no one sees it as strange for girls to be wearing guys clothes but the moment a guy looks more feminine he gets harassed. I'm glad you're pushing yourself to be comfortable and breaking a norm at the same time! Way to go!!
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I know it's so frustrating! It's fine for girls to dress down a bit and wear guys clothes. I know quite a few girls that shop in the mens section because they actually prefer a lot of it, but if a guy went to the women's section and bought something it'd be seen as completely crazy.
Thanks so much for the confidence boost!