I believe my husband is chronically depressed or possibly bipolar.He has had a long history of drug and alcohol abuse.He's clean for now.Exhibits irresponsible behavior,overspending a lot. I feel we are going in two different directions.We butt heads constantly. We have two children, and too much focus is on him and not on them.We've been married almost 13 years. I feel he has drained me of all the energy I have for him.I don't want to give him anymore.How do you deal with someone like this? How do you deal with always worrying what they are up to? How do you deal with someone who is very manipulative and sneaky?