It's not a bait and switch at all. If I wanted to discuss the particulars I would be asking for help on SurvivingInfidelity. It feels a little like you just want something to dissect or some entertainment and I'm not interested in offering that up as I'm already struggling to recover at almost a year out. If you honestly feel like offering advice requires the particulars of his infidelity then I don't think my question is one you can help me with. Chromegirl was most helpful and seemed to understand what my concern was. In fact, I led with the fact that I was looking for help for me and not looking to address his behavior so that forum members could see - in thread preview- that I was interested in healing myself and not convincing myself of anything about his behavior. When you realized that I wouldn't be going into detail it would have been fine to not comment.

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