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Old Mar 05, 2014, 06:14 PM
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Originally Posted by CantExplain View Post
Transference can happen in minutes, if not seconds.

That's why first impressions last.
Totally agree. I was "attached" to my current T of 5 months from day 1. It wasn't my intention...in fact, I didn't want to be attached to a T anymore so I choose one younger than me. Sometimes people just mesh.

Instead of fighting it, try going with the flow. Allow yourself to feel safe again. Maybe your unconscious is telling you your new T is a safe, good person.
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Thanks for this!
CantExplain, sweepy62