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Originally Posted by A Red Panda
You do know that you quoted my post and then didn't respond to anything in it, right?
You don't need to give up on yourself. You just need to work on making a plan for yourself that doesn't involve relying on your fiancee for everything. That starts with identifying your challenges, so that you can start brainstorming ways to make them easier.
Your fiancee has no control over you bank account - if your father is on the account, then he has control with you, which means that you need him there to help sort that out. Unless you have a joint account set up with your fiancee, then she can't do anything with your banking besides stand there with you.
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What if I can not take control of my life like she can. It's like I have no freedom at all. It's crazy how she got her money before I did like I'm supposed to deal with the fact that I can't think of everything else either. Like I know how figure out everything on own. I got so angry at her cause it seemed like she was supposed to suggest it to me when I need like I don't have the skills to be problem solving everything little detail. I feel like she don't care like I can't problem solve like she can. I'm not good at it, like I ever will be.