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Originally Posted by needarealitycheck
Maybe your husband is having guilt issues? Surely he must feel bad for the cheating. I know you said it happened in January but maybe before that too? I found out, easily, when they start hiding things somethings going on. You sound okay, with the affair, which I find a little odd. Is he crying out for attention? Maybe he really loves you but he doesn't feel like he is getting what he needs from you? Just a few questions for you. I know a relationship goes both ways, and communication between you needs to happen. Counseling maybe.
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When we were dating, engaged, and newly weds, it happened a lot. I didn't find out everything until we were married 3 months, but it's been a year and I know it wasn't going on for awhile. My belief is it started in December again. And no, I am not okay with it. When I found out, I was angry and was leaving, but I took a hard fall, and ended up in the hospital the rest of the night with a miscarriage. He stayed by my side and we argued it out til I went numb. I try to give him attention. I go out of my way not to go numb with him. Seeking therapy and help for 2 years. I've been a lot better.
Although after all of this, he was prefect last night and this morning. I swear he has a switch.