There is love for you and it starts with 'self love'. Once you love yourself as you would a baby or a good friend, all doors will open for you. I was like you for 8yrs. After an abusive marriage for 22yrs, I felt I should not even be sharing the air others breath. I was worthless.

For 8 yrs I did not date but worked on loving myself completely. I made lots of girlfriends who supported me and made the effort to call them even when I did not feel like it. I then kissed a few frogs who after a few dates did not meet my new standards. It did not put me off once.

When I did not expect it, I met a guy in the local supermarket. We were married over 13yrs before he died of a heart attack. I will look for love in the future but any man who is with me needs to reach my standards or I no longer want him.

Learn first to love yourself x