Well its only for a few months. I learned to play cards and wear Mary Kay makeup for my first husbands huge family. Thats part of what helped me decide to change my marital status. It took me a while to realize that people chose how they wanted to live, that there wasnt one right way as my family tried to tell me. Which in my familys case, was minimal interaction. I would use this time to see HOW you would fit in as a sisterinlaw and see if it makes you happy. Whether its with this guy or not. Some families are closer than others. I for one have never had lunch alone with my brothers 3rd wife. His 2nd wife and i were lets say much closer. We shared a gyno.