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Originally Posted by tigersassy
So I'm curious. My sex drive is up up, but the problem is that I'm not wanting it from my wife. I only want pleasure from myself. Other people touching me just makes me mad. I know what I want but don't know how to articulate it to my wife. Im the only one that achieve it. Is this just me or is it something that can come with the bipolar?
I have noticed the up mood so maybe its just a part of my mania. I don't know.
Tig
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I hear you. My husband (I'm a legally married gay man) is quite plain vanilla, I like raunch.
There's only one thing I really like doing with him (sorry kids, no details
), but
his meds kill his sex drive/ability. Mine have me growing antlers. Otherwise I'm pretty OK and prefer self-service. I find it more pleasurable and intense by fantasizing, watching porn and doing the right knuckle shuffle. I've even taken my iPhone into the bathroom at work, opened a porn video and had at it. I can't give an explanation or reason, but I just wanted to say it's not just you.