One thing I'll caution about, having been there done that, is online sexting. There have been a few occasions when other guys from another forum I hang out at (its a SFW site) have struck up on-line flirtations via pm that became quite steamy and had me running into the men's room a couple of times a day. There was no chance of having ever met these guys, but it made me feel creepy,being married. I'm not judging anyone for it, just cautioning that it can sneak up on you. I've since put a stop to it.