I agree with Sam. Make a stink. If you don't want to share your name, find an advocate, I found one in something called Catholic Charities. They made the stink on my behalf (because I was deep in crisis). The newspaper will allow you to write an anonymous letter if you have a good reason, like fear of retribution. You can also reach out to the TV news casts. It's close to sweeps week and they always appreciate a good human interest story. Again they will shield your identity. Good luck! I'm in your shoes, just don't have a child. But I will be moving in with my ex-inlaws which is very embarrassing even though we love each other dearly.