I feel like the queer-related stuff is intimately connected to all my other stuff though. Like relationships, for example. When I start dating someone, the queer stuff and the attachment stuff are going to feed off each other and multiply into catastrophic proportions. I want to keep current T for now and work with both Ts, even if I might end up weaning myself off current T, but I feel like having a T who isn't queer or at the very least queer knowledgeable might be shooting myself in the foot.