tisk tisk concentrate on the postitive lady!!!
When she sees how great you really are (dismissing any adult interventions of messin') she'll want your attention again. Don't force it, but make it available (I know you can.) I agree, it's the child wanting to be an adult. She's copying and learning how to, maybe not all good stuff, but she'll sort through it as she grows up.
Ok.. so tell us how you plan on Gramatizing him! I will take notes