I know this person isn't going to tell anyone about what I told her; it's just the fact that she knows it, that she knows that I have "attachment issues stemming from childhood maltreatment", which isn't something I tell a lot of people, especially acquaintances who I see once a week.

And I know I would need to ask about social run-ins (with current T, her answer is that she will simply ignore me - of course she will, and this is why I stay with her, because she's safe; we will never have this issue). But social run-ins, ex. seeing each other at Pride, is different than running into each other regularly at school functions or her giving a workshop to my class or something like that...