Lol mine too; except I don't realize i'm testing her until she points it out. On one occasion she flat out asked "Did I pass the test?" Lol; although I think her asking annoyed me so she lost points

Like you - mine stems from mistrust, fear of being too much (in which she has told me that she can handle it), and fear of abandonment (which seemingly is a wound that will never be healed). Never really in anger though...though this past week was close (misdirected anger).