Hi...I don't have much to add to the above wonderful thoughts...and I agree with them..

From a mom's perspective, I would have something of a knee-jerk reaction. So I would give it some time before you bring it up again. Let her absorb it and come to terms with it and let her approach you.
If she makes random hurtful comments to you....then don't try and talk to her...she's not ready for a conversation yet.