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Originally Posted by Theseus
I hear you. My husband (I'm a legally married gay man) is quite plain vanilla, I like raunch.  There's only one thing I really like doing with him (sorry kids, no details  ), but his meds kill his sex drive/ability. Mine have me growing antlers. Otherwise I'm pretty OK and prefer self-service. I find it more pleasurable and intense by fantasizing, watching porn and doing the right knuckle shuffle. I've even taken my iPhone into the bathroom at work, opened a porn video and had at it. I can't give an explanation or reason, but I just wanted to say it's not just you. |
I'm single, but I have had similar experiences. Seems to cycle, total disinterest all the way to borderline hypersexual. On the downslopes I even have to schedule masturbation sessions just to keep from having to do unnecessary laundry caused by nocturnal emissions. Since it's somewhat cyclical I just attributed it to the bipolar but I found out that my middle brother had low testosterone a few years ago and think I need to be tested as well.