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Originally Posted by Psychegirl
When I was young I always used to believe that it's men who long for Se.... stuff & physical intimacy but now-a-days it seems like the pattern has reversed for some reason now girls do the stalking part,Lol......Please, don't resort to indecency in your attempt to attract guys. It just attracts the wrong type of guys & then they all think that how hypocritical all the girls are. My simple advice to everyone who wants to "BE WITH SOMEONE" badly is that work on yourself, on your own personality. Our personality(Good, Bad, Sober, Nice, Decent,etc, etc...) tends to attract the same type of personality. So, BE THE PERSON, you'd want to BE WITH.
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This is so bang-on. I think people who are "pleasers" (and this is something I have always struggled with so I know all about it) have a tendency to try to be what we think others are looking for. It is a dangerous road, for all sorts of reasons, and eventually this sort of relationship is doomed to if not fail, then at least be completely fulfilling. Authenticity is important...and a big part of that is self-acceptance.