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Originally Posted by kirby777
Hi-
To the members whom push/pull T...Do you do that to people in your real life..in your relationships?? I do. My behavior is instinctive, and I cannot control it..A close person to me will say something which i find offensive/disrespectful, and I SHUT DOWN. In my mind, the connection is lost, but I will carry on a superficial conversation w/ the other party. * sorry to hijack your thread.
Since my T QUIT  , with out even notifying me, which HURTS, and I also find it extremely unprofessional...I found out the night before out next "session"...I might do this with the new one. I do not want to RELIVE the kast 6-7 months of T sessions...but I have no choice.
about me-I have been hurt by humans my whole life, including my mother. The only thing I trust at the moment is my dog. How I wish she could talk.
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Yes, I do it with everyone.
And although it's okay to be hurting, I would advise you to try to avoid bitterness. It only hurts you and leaves you feeling angry and distrustful of the world. It doesn't benefit you or do what you think it does. It doesn't help you avoid this pain again, it keeps you stuck in it and reliving it over and over.