recently chat has been undergoing a lot of changes. few of us actually Like changes~! it makes for some hard times, and 'default' behaviors. i hope you won't think things are always like this, or always gonna be this way~

it takes time to make friends anywhere, and those of us who have been here a while, see a lot of one-timers... it's hard to invest emotional energies elsewhere when we are struggling with the chat changes ourselves. please be patient with us~