From the men I know, they don't want women who dress "barely." Of course, I'm talking about clean-cut, hard working professional men. They also say that they fully respect any lady who doesn't even kiss on the first few dates!
Now, for me, I guess it's the type of person I'm looking for...that person I represent to them... that's how I act and dress anyway. I get the correct response from the men this way.
Perhaps it's what you're trolling for that determines the kind of bait you use?