Sometimes I find therapy so hard that I have to show up in my rattiest comfort clothing just to feel safe and reassured. On the weeks that I'm not coming directly from work I usually wear something ultra casual. It's usually clean but almost always involves a hoodie and jeans that have been laundered enough to be very soft. Other weeks I'm all put together and professional at other times. I would not feel at all okay if she told me what to wear or suggested I didn't look presentable.

How invested do you feel in her after just 3 sessions, Random? I suspect that in your shoes I wouldn't stick around for more. I want a T who can just take me as I am.