Quote:
Originally Posted by kipper-bang
I was surprised to see this post as I also don't like kissing. There is no reason for it that I can think of but the idea of kissing leaves me cold and scares me. I have been married twice and had boyfriends in between and they were all okay with me not wanting to kiss.
Unlike others that have posted I am happy to have sex and everything involved. I am also more than happy to try out 'unusual' things. I can orgasm with no problem and love intimacy of cuddles and kisses on the body.
Most unusually I would rather give 'protected' oral sex on a man than kiss him. I don't know if this phobia has a medical name or not, and I don't let it bother me as I have had exciting relationships without the need for kissing.
|
I'm sorry it's a phobia for you, but I'm glad you don't let it bother you.
For me though, I fantasized (well at least I did) about kissing guys. I want to kiss a guy and I really wish I could feel something when I did. It could be connected with the sexual side effects that I have from Cymbalta which I can't go off of. I already talked to my pdoc and her opinion was I choose being calm and "zen" (I have really bad anxiety) or not having sexual side effects. She was pretty much like "too bad, how sad" about it. So what's the point in trying…I'm never going to have an orgasm with someone else because I'll be too stressed out about not being able to orgasm.