Personally? I think he's hiding something. I think he's seeing sine one else and playing u. He's doing things he did at the beginning of ur relationship just not with u( answering text right away). If he gets upset with u wanting him to come clean with his behavior something is wrong. He's a user.

If u were to pay is back rent and then the month. He will come back and say his landlord said no. He will be happy to let u get him out of the bind he is in, but it will be for him and not u. He's selfish and self centered and doesn't want anyone to meet u because a) he fears what they will tell u b) he doesn't want them asking questions about who u are or c) he doesn't feel like u r forever because he's seeing someone else.

Sorry, I have my own paranoia. But for relationships to work everyone has to be honest especially when it affects everyone. My partner and I have been together 6 yrs. we are honest with everything, the only thing I don't tell her is my past that has nothing to do with us. We come from similar families and similar pasts. I feel no need telling her my demons when she has many of the same.

Neither of us are cheaters and we know we are better together than apart. We have our issues just like everyone else, but mainly that's a failing in me because I'm not an emotional person. We know it's my inability to have normal emotions but I try.

Sorry back to u. Ur boyfriend seems to be afraid of being found out or caught in his lies and deceit. U can do better than him, u deserve better than him.