Thank you for your responses. My T is single (she recently started dating a guy from out of state so they only see each other on the weekends so it doesn't effect our schedule) and her child is grown and also lives out of state. Definitely not a jealousy issue.

She was recently diagnosed with colitis so right now they are trying to figure out how to treat it best. This winter has been horrible with storms. Typically she does not cancel for snow...but when police are asking people to stay off the roads she respects that and cancel...that has happened 2 or 3 times a year. I am VERY sympathetic as she has NEVER been one to call out sick..she use to be one of those who hadn't cancelled for YEARS....

Just hard when I am the mindset of I am going to see her the same day and then find out she has to cancel.. She is always open to emails and such so she is always available if needed.