Ouch, that is rough. I echo what Frankbtl says. I would also add that maybe talking to someone outside of your family might be a good idea. Your family obviously loves you and they are trying to help but without having been through it themselves or a background in psychology they may be a bit lost in the sauce.

Youmay consider asking them to take you to a family therapist. If you are not already in treatment that is. They may be able to help you bridge the gap with them as well as give them better tools tohelp you.