Hmmm...I can say as a teenager I did spend an inordinate amount of time alone. I spent a lot of time on forums and chatting with my online friends and not much with IRL friends. Straight up until my senior year, I suppose. Then I started dating an older guy so I was out fairly often with him and his friends, but honestly I never helped the immense loneliness I felt. Probably because we didn't have a good relationship.
When I was 20 I was dating my now husband so once again I was out often. But honestly if I had never met him I would have been alone all the time. I'm terrible at making my own friends. Even now I only hang out with my brother and his girlfriend and only because we live with them.
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Of course it is happening inside your head. But why on earth should that mean that it is not real?
-Albus Dumbledore
That’s life. If nothing else, that is life. It’s real. Sometimes it
f—-ing hurts. But it’s sort of all we have.
-Garden State
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