Hello

I have a huge Straitjacket fetish and I'm a sub and love to be dominated in a straitjacket and my wife knows and tries to be accepting about it. My love for being in a straitjacket is so powerful that when we engage in normal sex I cant reach orgasm or maintain an erection half the time with out being in my straitjacket. I know my wife doesn't really like the fact that I love being restrained in a straitjacket but like I said she does it for me but it feels like a chore, she just wants to make me cum and then take it off of me. There are two things I can think of for my problem that I can see, one is to get rid of my straitjackets and never be in them again and just think about them while having normal sex. Two- keep them and just never ask her to put me in them again. I have tried to not ask her for weeks now but its all I can think about and I know she's just not into it. Is there a way that I could get her into it or is there a way for me to get ”out of my fetish” ?? Please any advice you could give me would help me. Because to tell you the truth I really don't want to give them up and the thought of never being restrained in a straitjacket just makes me ill. If you need more information from me please do not hesitate to ask me.

Thank you